How To Move On After Break-up..

Break-ups can be difficult and painful, but the important thing to remember is that a break up is not the end of the world. Sometimes a break-up can even be a good thing because it will give you a chance to re-evaluate your life, and maybe even lead you to find someone more suitable. The truth is, that you can move on after a break-up no matter how bad it may have been.

 

 

 

Instructions:

• Give yourself plenty of time to heal and recuperate. Remember that time heals all wounds. Put away pictures, gifts or any mementos that remind you of your ex. It is natural to experience feelings of denial, but do your best to resist the urge to call your ex and ask to get back together. Immediately after a break-up, you are at your most vulnerable state, so be careful not to get into a rebound relationship that may prove to be a mistake. Avoid some of the pitfalls, such as drowning your sorrows in alcohol, and instead channel all of your energy into positive activities that make you feel good about yourself.

• Surround yourself with friends and loved ones. Talk about how you're feeling and allow them to comfort you and offer you advice. A break-up can be a very lonely experience, so surrounding yourself with others you love and trust will help to erase some of the loneliness. Don't try to deal with the experience all by yourself. Go out and meet new people, rebuild old relationships, network and immerse yourself into social situations. Keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy with the people you love, and don't dwell on the past.

• Go out and have fun. Don't stay home and sulk, as it will only make you feel more miserable. Round up a group of friends and hit the town. Do something fun and exciting, such as a night of dancing or bar hopping. Plan a weekend beach or camping trip or take a quick out-of-town getaway. Going out with friends will remind you that being single can be just as fun as being in a relationship. It will also help to keep your mind off your ex.

Loving me

This is a short story of my life and i wanted to share it with you..

hmm.. what do you think is LOVE??
they say love is blind, while some other say love conquers all.
but for me? love for me is unlimited.
the feelings that you cannot explain..
it makes you feel happy and inspired but can also cause you so much pain.

i do have a lot of experience having a boyfriend
or being committed to someone.

it so really nice to have it but so really hard to lose it. :-(

last few days there is something that boggles my mind.

this is for someone who loves me despite all impossible things to happened.

i just wanted to say thank you for all the things you've done good to me

for the love and care even though you know that i already have a special someone

and i am sorry for that. i know you understand.

but i am trying naman to do all the best that i can just to treat you fair.

one time you said "manhid" ako. but its not. siguro magaling lang talaga ako when it comes to pretending.

but im not denying the fact that you are also important to me.

i cannot promise anything but one thing for sure,

i can treat you in a special way but no commitments are involve.

i do believe naman kasi that having a mutual feelings for each other does not necessarily need

to have a formal relationship as a boyfriend and girlfriend because while you are both busy

with your personal life it is possible naman to make each other as an inspiration.

"no commitments" just a romantic bond. diba?

sabi mo nga you can wait naman e. so lets make things happen nalang in a right time, in a right place.

di naman kailangan magmadali. but so far, lets just enjoy nalang each others company while we can.

now, im happy for having you and so much thankful for having my boyfriend.

i hope someday walang may ma hurt in the end. everything's going to be fine. :-)

Were Still lovers right?

"LOVE"

Why do i always cry for something? i know i cant no longer hold on to.

this is the questions that  boggles my mind.

i always feel like crying whenever i get the chance to remember the things that we use to spend together. i know i should just accept the sad truth that things will never go back to normal between the two of us. but it hurts me, its just so hard to let go of something that was such a big part of my life. some people say, i should simply value the time i am spending a part from you so that i can discover my self. but this is just too painful for me to do. now, i ask myself.. what went wrong? i was back to our past when we first met. we bonded and it eventually lead to a sense belonging i treasure those moments i fell in love with you. we grew closer but despite all my expectations that we'd be better be as lovers though you are no longer interested to be part of my life. but i'm glad our path's once cross that day. i know i cant no longer look for another person exactly like you and i know its unlikely for you to return to me, but i'm still hoping even if it takes forever.. :(